Using NLP to be focus on what’s important and stay in the Driving Seat
Have you ever made a bad decision when you felt under pressure to make a decision quickly? Or have you ever found that you simply can’t make ‘instant’ decisions because you “need time to think”? Perhaps it’s not time you need but space. Ever longed for a bit of breathing space, or a moment of peace and quiet, to be able to think? Imagine then, being a racing driver. In the world of Formula One racing, your ‘quick’ decisions suddenly... [Read More...]
What We’re Looking For Is Right Under Our Noses
“Diamonds under the soles of your shoes” – Paul Simon Quite often in western societies, young people will set off on their gap year to travel the world and, in doing so, hope to learn more about who they really are and what makes them tick. In fact, there are plenty of people of all ages who do this once or many times throughout their life. I can remember my first trip away from Scotland, to a kibbutz in Israel! Between me buying the ticket... [Read More...]
The BIG question so many of us ask: REVEALED!
For many millions of years, one question has always been asked of human beings: what is the meaning of life? For many people the meaning of life is a question that prompts them to turn to religion and faith. After all, religion and faith often provides people with a context which they exist within. And it’s this context that gives situations and circumstances meaning. For myself personally, I believe life for us is a platform of self-discovery. ... [Read More...]
Inner Confidence To live Your Life Fearlessly
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” – Marianne Williamson Self-Confidence! It’s one of those things that even the best of us struggle with at times. We can often get down on ourselves and literally tear strips off ourselves. But that’s never the way to go! During times like this, we often feel as we did back when we were growing up. As teenagers in particular,... [Read More...]
The desire for more money…the power of enthusiasm (part 2)
When you feel GREAT about your goal, you go a long way to materializing it! There’s a great quote that was in that famous film and book, “The Secret” that was spoken by W. Clement Stone when he was alive. He said – and it is quoted in “The Secret” that, “Whatever the mind…can conceive it can achieve.” Now what an amazing, amazing quote that is! If we can actually see an outcome – no matter how great or out of this world it is... [Read More...]
The Desire for more Money (Part 1)
As a coach, I work with many people who list as one of their greatest desires, “wanting MORE money!” Now, seriously – is there any one of us right now who can honestly say, “No. I don’t think I want any more money coming into my life”? If we all get 100% honest with ourselves, the desire for more money is often present. We want it! But many people don’t attract money into our lives! And why is that? I mean after all, they WANT it. And... [Read More...]
Be Brave
Whatever we learn to do, we learn by actually doing it. People come to be builders, for instance, by building, and harp players by playing the harp. In the same way, by doing just acts we come to be just. By doing self controlled acts, we come to be self-controlled, and by doing brave acts we become brave.” Aristotle How can you be brave today ? Read More →
Life is Now
“It does no good to search frantically for peace, to seek anxiously after love,joy or freedom. If you want joy, be joyful. If you want peace, be peaceful” Cheri Huber Sometimes modern life with its pace, demands and the expectations we place on ourselves can lead you to seek in the future something that is available in the present. And I dont know which “state” you would like more of now, love, happiness, freedom but what I do know... [Read More...]
Success is within your reach! (Part 2)
Every human being who has walked the earth and will ever walk the earth has the infinite ability within them to create the life they want. And success really is the achievement of that. It’s the reality of living your ideal life and being happy. When we are happy, we are healthy and rich. So we were made to be happy – to be successful ! This is our default position which we sometime forget . So when you do something – with the full intention... [Read More...]
Dreamers and Goal-Setters
No doubt you have heard of dreams and goals before, right? Many people just place dreams and goals into the same basket, but the fact is, they are quite different. Dreams are things that many people have. People will say that they dream of being wildly successful and incredibly rich. But they leave it at that. They are vague about the dream and don’t really have any serious intention of making that dream a reality. And so, it just remains a... [Read More...]
